Believe and manifest, then watch it come true.
We humans have a tendency to find and attach meaning to everything in the world we live in. We are always looking to control our circumstances. When something good happens we take pride in it. We try to figure out the formula of how we obtained it - and how can we apply the same formula to obtain more of our desires. When something bad happens? We work harder to find the reasons and our thoughts range anywhere from blaming ourselves or others for this miserable outcome.
But what is the actual cost of these super glue type attachments to such concepts? CLARITY.
Being attached to a certain idea is just like romanticizing a partner who has very human flaws, that we tend to overlook.
Clarity can only be obtained from attaining balance in everything that we do, and everything that we are aspiring to become.
I am a huge proponent of manifestations and synchronicity. The universe always looks out for us. But if you log onto social media lately, you will see all sorts of absurd claims and measures such as “Perform x y and z rituals and watch your life change”. Claims of gaining money, power and love. Some deeply spiritual individuals are also very quick to point out that someone’s misery and misfortune is also manifested by them and if only they will “think positive” they can conjure up a wonderful life.
Unfortunately life, manifestations, synchronicity, and Universe does not work like that. There is a rhythm and flow to everything that happens. Thinking positive is choosing happiness in any circumstance that befalls us, which automatically changes our brain chemistry to see glass as half full. Thinking positively does not shield us from harsh realities of life such as job loss, physical illness and other failures. The Universe has quite a task of taking care of billions of human beings on planet earth. You trying to manifest that specific lover, those billion dollars or a career as a self help guru might not ever come into play. It is not because the Universe personally hates you, or that you aren’t doing the rituals quite properly. But because in the proper designed flow of Universe, getting those things might not be beneficial to you or others around you.
Blaming yourself or others for your/their misfortune by saying “They thought negative” is like saying that little kids are manifesting child abuse or victims of crime such as rape, robbery or murder were manifesting those things. We all have heard of the naïve people who are too trusting, that never once believed someone could harm them and guess what? They are the ones who easily fall prey to schemes and scams, over and over again. It is their blind faith in strangers where they continue to not learn how being gullible can cause them their money or life. Friends, I know that was me but I am doing better lol. I will not be inviting runaway gypsy woman from a mental ward, to my place of residence again. All because they appear lonely but very trustworthy.
How does manifestation actually work? Ask the Universe for contentment, peace, or purely just let it do what is good for you. I was always so specific in my asks from the Universe growing up. It is this year when going through a terrible rough patch in my career, I asked the Universe to do what is good for me. And then the very next week I got laid off. I wasn’t sure which direction Universe was taking me but the results came out to be absolutely perfect and joyous. Now I could have asked for something specific like, make my company love me or I want a job as a fashion model. And I would have set out in a totally different path than what Universe put me out on - and would have missed out on the amazing job opportunity I got, I would have gone on a hypothetical audition. Guys I am really not trying to be a fashion model :). This is just an odd example.
Does this mean that no bad calamity will befall me going forward? No. No matter how much we manifest and think positively - the ebb and flow of life will bring good news and bad. But after each downward fall will come an upward rise. Let it surprise you. Manifest on that. Don’t try to stop the wave by asking for something specific like your crush to become your next door neighbor. Trust me Timmy does not want to live in a one bedroom studio apartment magically cause you are manifesting that. Timmy has his own wishes of manifesting owning a townhouse in the sunny state of California. Who do you think is the winner here? Don’t make this harder for the Universe. CO-OPERATE!
Manifest good health, peace of mind, contentment in all that are your life circumstances. Then see the magic unravel.